~just look above the sky....leave the sadness away and move on~
Birth, Life, meetings, separation, death. This is the nature of life. When a baby is born in a family, everyone was overjoyed because there is a new life entering their lives. Later on, the babies will eventually grow up and they start to meet each other. Many found loves during their journeys and YES, another new chapter of life has begun. They are ofcourse happy and filled with hopes. Then, there goes the "separation" part which lead to heartbroken, disappointment, misery and the list goes on and on. This is where the man's mind influences his body profoundly. If allowed to function viciously and entertain wholesome thoughts, it can cause disasters. They who suffered will usually let their negative thoughts to control them. All these unfortunate events happen due to a lack of understanding of the real nature of life. In life, departure or separation is unavoidable. This happen all the time and certainly unavoidable. When such things happen, one must try to find out where the cause lies. However, if the separation is beyond one's control, one must have courage to bear with it by realising the true nature of life. On the other hand, it is not difficult for anyone to find a new friends to fill the vacuum if one really wants to.
People always think that the "time will heal" phrase is too cliche', but it is always true. Trouble passes, What has caused you to burst into tears today will soon be forgotten. As we grow up and go through life, if we remember this we will often be surprised to find how we lie awake at night brooding over things that have happened to upset us during the day. And being surprised, we can realise what a waste of time and energy it has all been and how we have deliberately gone on being unhappy when we could have stopped it.
Realisation is something positively strong and opposed to ignorance. Once one has realised that separation is just a nature of life and after one has realised that letting go is better than clinging on, next thing should be done is "stop wasting your time". Bear this in our mind that by wasting your time you injure not only urself but to others too for your time is as much others as it is yours. I just feel that to be happy or to move on with life, it is all about choice. We do have a choice to be happy....as simple as that...
~Pinyin signs out~